Anonymous asked: okay so i like this guy and one of my friends went up to him and said 'i know some girl who likes you' and he didnt really mind and he told my friend that he doesnt like girls.. hes never had a gf and he is really shy. when he said that, does that mean hes gay or he doesnt want a relationship? what do you think i should do? i really like him.

i dont really think you can do anything until you know for sure. either way, by saying he doesnt like girls it either means he is gay and doesnt like girls, or that he doesnt like anyone right now. talking to him and staying close is good though, because then it either gives him a chance to form a crush on you, or even if he actually is gay, then you can support him! either way, dont act upon it until you are suure! goodluck :) x

Anonymous asked: hi, i need advice. I had unprotected with my boyfriend last month for the first time and i took the morning pill afterwards. and i eventually got my period and finished it last night where me and him had unprotected sex again and he came into me this time :/ i'm on the pill at the moment but i was only taking the white pill and didn't take the yellow pill until after we had sex. am i going to get pregnant ? :(

85-90% chance that you won’t. but the main thing is not to come to a conclusion before you are sure. hope everything is fine! x

Anonymous asked: okay so i really like this guy in a year above me and he isnt very social with girls- as in he doesnt really have a conversation with them but hes comfortable with talking to guys. what should i do?

well you’ve got to find a way to make him feel comfortable talking to you! maybe try talking to him while he is with his other guy friends too, or talk about things he is interested in and its pretty important to just act natural like its not a big deal and its normal and he should warm up to you! he obviously wont straight away.. but give it time and im sure he will get better :) x

Anonymous asked: thank you seriously so much for the advice, but i got it today! but honestly, you kept me so calm after responding. thank you so much, i follow you on both tumblrs, and i owe you so much to be honest. and you were right, i did feel silly. but thank you so much! xoxoxox

yay im so happy for you :) thats realllyy good news!

its ok we all have our moments ahah x

Anonymous asked: thank you, but usually my period comes on time, like majority of the time it does. do you think I'm just getting worked up and over reacting ? like i'm sort of forcing myself to believe i may be pregnant? i dont know if that makes any sense to you. i've been so worried all day, like checking if i have my period constantly, even wearing something just in case :( sorry for all the major details but i don't know what to think :(

yeah babe dont worry! it is common for girls to try and convince themselves they are pregnant. when i first started having sex i used to have mental breakdowns and convince myself that i was pregnant. you’re not alone ! all i can say is to wait. find things to take your mind off it. because imagine how silly you will feel if you aren’t pregnant! just remember to use a condom next time so that you avoid getting all worked up :)

http://www.kidspot.com.au/Pregnancy-Conception-First-symptoms-of-pregnancy-What-happens-right-away+3636+121+article.htm

that website has all the first symptoms of pregnancy, but yet again don’t convince yourself of anything. if it has been more than 5 weeks you should probably have almost all of these symptoms. please dont rush yourself into believing in any of this yet though. i have a friend whos period didnt come for 9 weeks randomly. its extremely common to be late. let me know if you need anything else! :) x

Anonymous asked: hi, i haven't told anyone this but my boyfriend.. we had sex a few weeks ago for the first time and it was my first time too.. and we didn't use a condom and i was currently not on the pill and i'm waiting for my period so i can start the pill.. but i'm almost four days late.. and i'm so scared. i told him and he said he would stick by me no matter what i decide, but we both prefer to not have it but i'm still so scared. i can't tell my parents or friends they'll be disappointed. help me please!

four days late is still normal! dont get too scared or anything! wait a few more days or weeks even. periods can sometimes even randomly skip a month so dont freak out gorgeous! if you start having morning sickness then maybe go get a test to find out, but dont stress out about it untill youre 100% sure! goodlucccck x

Anonymous asked: THANK YOU SO MUCH !

thanks okay gorgeous, i hope everything went/goes well! x